Is it possible to be bugged DIRECTLY by what you think is bugging you? It's actually always about something else, yet we want to have knowledge and control, and so our habit (and want) is to assign a direct connection, not realizing that it's the indirect scattering outwards towards the future, consequences either perceived or real, that upsets us. Dare we look to see where those rays reflecting and refracting lead? Realizing at least, that you are not DIRECTLY upset by what is upsetting you helps to establish a gentle ripple of centeredness, which can allow any action required (if any is required) to present itself as self-evident. It also allows the healing instinct of your body and life itself (the greater body) to resume.
We have so learned in this society to live off of illusions, and worse, even assigning merit to how well we control our imaginary dragons. We ALL see different dragons at different times. No dragon exists in the reality of another. It will always be different. Yet we take for granted a type of universal overlay on how humans exist. We ALL perhaps exist in the equivalent of parallel universes, where the differences that do exist are instead perceived as universal simply because we have oversimplified, but mostly rationalized. Why? Because when we cease our habits, we discover that we are actually blind, alone, terrified, and seeking to control, looking for a foothold. This comes off as a place that is to be avoided but nothing can be further from the truth. To realize what "is" is to return to a comfort where needing comfort is no longer necessary or wanted. The greatest comfort is requiring none. It doesn't matter what is outlined as necessary, enviable, meritorious by even a pointed majority of a society. The decision and value of something has its most potential, magic and beauty when executed at the level of the individual, as a free, choiceless choice, as spontaneous response to what your living fire desires.
Many in life are walking on imaginary steps, and they just don't realize it. Where you see a void or chasm will be equally as solid ground as the steps laid out before you. The path is only optional. There is no need for consistency or a maintained and monitored performance-build when it comes to these things. Do note the difference between the physical, where, yes, training, exercise, vocalizes create changes physically. We simply have the habit of taking our external experiences and laws and rendering them equally inside, anthropomorphizing our emotions, pysche, mind, and thus who we really are, our souls, live by useless and unneeded obstacles. Step into and thus onto the void, discover it is ALL, and angle towards any dimension in 3-D space, time, and beyond what can be expressed in words. The stairs are no longer needed. The dragons were never there.